I had a guy tell me a long time ago that if you came to the end of your life and had one true friend, then you were lucky. I did not believe him. I thought I would have a bunch. I don’t have a bunch. So my encouragement is to find people who really want to know you, and be the person who really wants to know people. It requires no judgment, and the ability to differentiate oneself from others, to hold on to who you are in the midst of differences. When Lucy had to go to that next plane of existence, I lost someone who had been with me for nearly 8 years, and I felt cheated she was not with me longer. She knew me like no other. She watched and observed me all the time. I want to model her behavior toward me to my friends, new and old. And that is a great model for friendship.